Love Vs Love
By Jane (Adceásian)
The one energy humanity has longed for over the last 20,000 plus years was love; love of another human, love of a family, love of a career or job, some way to know that we were accepted and loved for who we are, not who another person could alter, reshape or fix. Each person wanted a love that was what humans refer to as unconditional. Some call this their soul mate where each is believed to be unreservedly loved. A few even felt as though they had found this. Yet I ask, what did each person give up, release or set aside of themself to retain this love relationship? If you are radically honest, was this truly what you might identify as unconditional?
On a dual world where each of us chose to incarnate for the experience of lack, limit, fear, harm and power; love that is unconditional is impossible. We have hot/cold, love/hate, good/bad, right/wrong, etc. It is the nature of dual experiences. So having a love that is without condition simply does not exist within a dual world. What does exist is the human experience of love that has all kinds of conditions attached to it.
In a dual world we hope to find someone or sometimes multiple people who come as close as possible to matching our human beliefs and ways of living. When we are fortunate enough to discover our match, we identify this as love. This person generally likes the same things and his or her core ideals fall into alignment with ours. The closer these beliefs are held within our heart, the deeper our connection with that person and the more we consider that person to be our soulmate or our divine compliment.
Sometimes we are with a compliment until our actions and beliefs change and the one-time compliment no longer is a match. This can be because we have outgrown them, or they have outgrown us spiritually and they were in our life as a stimulus for growth. This is an experience that we chose for our self before incarnation and the gifts received from each one are priceless. There is no such thing as a victim, only a choice in our personal evolution. Each of us chose to experience the pain, harm and fears of a dual world before incarnation so that we can then remember who we are as soul and remember each individual as an energetic, Co-creator being with the Divine. The more that we remember who we are, the less fear can affect our life. Fear is never real; only love and compassion along with your expression of joy is truth.
It is only our habitual ways and patterns of the past holding us hostage to the memories and the fears. You have the right to embrace a love that is real. A love that is always within each of us for it is who we are. You and I were made of this great love upon our birth as Soul and we are perfect.
On all worlds from the fifth domain and above there is no harm, no fear and no love that is conditional. It is impossible for within all of the non-dual worlds, there is no human emotional love, only Divine Love, Compassion (wisdom) and Joy for these are the energies which all life is created.
Divine Love has no exceptions, no need to alter or fix as Divine Love is perfect; just as each Soul is created from perfect Love. All life in the cosmos is lived in peace, harmony and joy; there is no other way, it is not possible. This is the unconditional love that humans have yearned for, and it begins with the love of the Self. This is the way of Soul and Divine Love.
Please feel welcome to contact me so that together we can help you remember who you are and to come home to yourself as Soul.
You may email me @ yourcoachingdr@gmail.com. You initial session is Free. Together we can decide if this is right for you.
Our Time is Now
By Jane (Adceásian)
Last week I spoke of Remembering and how as Divine Co-Creator Beings we all are unique and powerful co-workers with the Divine.
As I witness the world dissolving in its old ways, I also recognize that today is our time of wonder and unprecedented opportunity to create what has never before been created in the Cosmos.
Yes, the Godhead, the Godhead Council of Twelve and multiple other high domain masters lifted the third domain into the fifth on 12/31/2011, and yes many of us were present and assisted in this never before anywhere in the Cosmos event and yes it was completed.
If you choose to remember and verify my knowing, please go into stillness and into contemplation and ask your Divine Soul Family or guides as you may refer to them to show you so that you will know for yourself. This is the only true way. You as Soul have the right to know truth and only Soul will provide this for you, not someone else’s story; I can share my truth, but only you will know for yourself when you ask. I encourage you to do so.
Now is our time to practice the caring and sharing that is a way of life in the new world of Love that exists on Earth now. No longer is life ruled by those with their egoic-human need for power over another. Oh, we witness daily how power is fought for with multiple untruths coming from all corners of the globe. The more they fight for power and control the less successful it is. It is impossible as this way of life must dissolve, and it is only held in its weakening position by our thoughts, memories and fear of change. We can’t fix it; it no longer exists. Only our habitual patterns, fears and behaviors hold this in place, UNTIL WE DON’T. It truly is that simple.
Now the propensity for caring for our fellow humans is growing. We can witness it moment by moment when we look for it. I notice how communities in different parts of the world are providing huge community gardens so that all who need food are equally supplied. The center divides on main streets have fruit and apple trees planted so that the homeless can have food. It also helps with the air quality and greenhouse gases. This is accomplished by each person contributing what they are able however that is. Never any judgment simply a coming together for the benefit of all life. Food is not thrown away, but provided to multiple facilities where those less fortunate can eat well and healthfully.
There are scientists around the world creating new and better ways to clean the oceans and waterways of the pollution. Everyday citizens are walking the beaches and collecting garbage and plastic so that animals, birds and people are not harmed. Fishermen cut their nets away from dolphins and whales. Neighborhood libraries are created so that everyone has the chance to read if they choose. The number of ways that everyday citizens are caring for the world around us never ceases to amaze me.
These are some of the ways of the new world. Everyone cares for the benefit of everyone and everything; this is Divine Love in action. It doesn’t take place through large meetings and governments making decisions for the multitudes, it takes place heart to heart, beacons of Light to other beacons of Light waking up and noticing how effortlessly change takes place; one Soul choice at a time. One heartfelt deed with no expectation of return; it is simply an act of Divine Love for another. We are all a part of the Great Oneness and Love is the foundation of all life.
Please feel welcome to contact me so that together we can help you remember who you are and to come home to yourself as Soul.
You may email me @ yourcoachingdr@gmail.com. You initial session is Free. Together we can decide if this is right for you.
Remembering
By Jane (Adceásian)
I am sitting in my home office in a state of wonder as I remember more and more of my life as Soul. I’m remembering who I am, what I know, and the roles that I play in the Cosmos as an Energetic Being, a Co-Creator with the Divine.
We all are energetic beings and co-workers with the Divine; it is simply that we chose to come into a dual world. We chose to incarnate into a dual world of forgetfulness, fear and harm, the only place where the veil of forgetfulness exists so that we could have the opportunity to experience a world so different from anywhere we live in the cosmos. And now that veil is lifted. Now the new world of Love is present. You can feel it, you can hear it if you listen, and through the eyes of soul you can witness it across the globe. The 3rd domain of fear and more was lifted into the 5th Domain of Love on 12-31-11 by the Godhead Council of Twelve who are responsible for this universe, solar system and Earth along with other great Masters. Only our memories remain, until we each choose love and peace.
We have the opportunity to remember who we are as Soul and our Divinity. What an experience it is to remember step by gentle step our true Self, and then to share the wonders, the love, the wisdom and the joy with our fellow Beings. This is our time to come home to our Self, to choose Soul.
At this time the new world of Love that is here is enlivened by each of us who chose to remember our True Self, not the illusion we have lived as an egoic-human, but how we innately live as Soul.
I remember being a teacher of Soul Truths in multiple lifetimes. I remember working with the animals both large and small. I remember traveling from community to community in multiple dimensions and on each dimension there are enlightened beings sharing their compassion, their joy and innately their love.
Each soul, no matter who you are or where you reside has the choice to expand in their knowledge and their role in the Divine Plan. Each of us has the opportunity by our individual choices to make this world a better place breath by breath and moment by moment. What a gift!
I sometimes forget in this dissolving world of harm and more, that all we have is the moment. I, like others, can get caught up in believing that the physical world is the true world and competing against ourselves and each other is how all life is. And then I STOP! I breathe. I connect to soul in my heart and listen to Soul’s voice. And I remember who I am as a Divine Being and the world stops spinning, the need to fix any part of my world begins to dissolve and once again moment-by-moment I remember. I am the Master of my Life, my choices, and my universe. I am the chooser.
As an Energetic Being and Co-Creator with the Divine, I have the privilege of helping to shape the new world of love. To help with the new communities in sharing, teaching and exploring deeper who we are as Divine Beings and our Divine Rights. Together we can remember who each is as Soul and your Divine role in The Plan, in this new world of Love, Compassion, Joy and Peace.
Please feel welcome to contact me via email so that together we can help you remember who you are and to come home to yourself as Soul. Please email me at yourcoachingdoctor@gmail.com.
Your introductory session is free. Together we can decide if this is the right choice for you.
The Gift of Your Attention
By Jane (Adceásian)
Over my lifetime I have noticed how humans offer their attention on a part time basis. Perhaps I have witnessed this because I too have been a product of poor attention at times.
I watch as people speak their truth, many times directly from the heart and those who are the recipients of their heartfelt wisdom are far too busy listening to their own voice in their heads eagerly awaiting their time to speak to actually hear what truths Soul had to share.
People do not always intend to be less attentive; it is simply the human way of feeling that “what I have to say is more important, more valuable and possibly more accurate that what I am hearing from you.” Surely this is a largely egoic-human way of projecting their importance.
I know a young man who since he was in high school believes that he is the smartest person in the room. He is now in his twenties and even with a job that requires serious attention to detail as the lives of others could be at risk if he is mistaken, he continues to challenge authority and the wisdom of those who are his superiors both in age, experience, and position. This has over time caused him to lose roles with greater responsibility as well as a higher salary. And yet, it is always someone else’s fault that he has not progressed in his career.
I share this short example to bring attention to how as humans we can get caught up in our own self-importance. I am sure that each of us has our own stories and our own examples of self-projection and poor attention to a fellow Soul.
This is the way it was ingrained in us over 20K years ago when as Souls we accepted that humans were more powerful, wiser, and deserved more of everything. Humans chose to believe that they knew more than their Creator; the One who created each Soul to have Fee Will and Choice without judgment. The Energy who created us as Energetic Beings and Co-Creators with the Divine. No Soul was created greater than another, no matter their level of attainment.
Humans chose to have a myriad experiences over the next 20K years of learning how to be separate from the Self… Soul. We created worlds and lifetimes of learning about fear; we chose to understand what it is like to be in harm’s way whether through times of limitation, lack or physical danger. Each of these was our individual choice to experience what it is to be in separation from Soul.
It was then that we learned how to restrict our attention from another’s wisdom or how to value our own words and experiences as more treasured than our fellow Soul. We distanced ourselves through a lack of respect. We learned feelings of greater self-importance and a higher value, many times via the role of low self-esteem; another avenue of lack, limitation and harm shared by so many.
This my brothers and sisters is not who we are, and it is time to remember ourselves as the Divine Co-creator Energetic Beings we were birthed to be. It is time to live in the new world of Love that is now on our beloved Gaia. By each one’s individual choice can we uplift one another, embrace ourselves as Soul and live the life of Freedom created for us upon our Birth from the Godhead so many billions of years ago.
We can welcome ourselves Home!
Please feel welcome to contact me via email so that together we can help you remember who you are and to come home to yourself as Soul. Please email me at yourcoachingdoctor@gmail.com.
Your introductory session is free. Together we can decide if this is the right choice for you.
The Jewel
By Jane (Adceásian)
When birthed from the Godhead each arrived as a precious jewel. This Jewel contains your gifts, your talents, your joy, and this Jewel is You, Soul. Each has their unique geometric (shape) each has its own tone (sound) and each its perfect color.
Some may be rubies, others emeralds or diamonds or amethyst or any of the myriad of choices; no choice is better than another, each is unique and perfect as it is. You are perfect as you are.
As this precious Jewel, you have the choice to become whatever and whomever you choose as the two gifts for this precious Jewel are Free Will and Choice. These talents, these gifts that you possess are your very own way of expressing your wisdom and your joy.
You are God’s Jewel and over the billions of years each of us has been honing, shaping, and polishing this Jewel, Soul. Each must discern for themselves what and how to express the Self. How will I use my Free Will? Where or how will I manifest my Wisdom (Compassion)? How will I share my Joy?
I know from many years of experience that the only true way to discern for oneself is to go within your heart where Love lives and evolves. Notice, in your quietness, your Jewel and gently with your intention... is it shining? Has it evolved? What does your Jewel look like, what are the sounds, can you hear Soul’s voice? How is Soul feeling? Are you in alignment with YourSelf, and embracing the new world of Love or are you caught up in the dissolving world of harm and fear? There is never any judgment simply a noticing from the Self.
Are you moving forward in your evolution or are you complacent on the wheel of repetition. Remember the saying, “if you do not like what you are doing, do something different.”
We are all precious Jewels of the Godhead, and it is our choice what we do with our gifts and talents. Celebrate yourself. Express your Joy. You do make a difference! You are God’s Jewel created in perfection.
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Your Light IS Your Journey!
By Jane (Adceásian)
It can be like standing on a hillside, looking over the city at night, there are thousands of lights; so different, multi-colored and each light has its own radiance. This is also the journey of Soul.
I quietly observe humanity in the grocery store, at different gatherings, and everywhere I go, I recognize them as great Beacons of Light. While not everyone is aware of their radiance, nevertheless it is always there.
Some of the lights are dimer than others. They may have a tragedy in their life; a family member in some degree of trouble, a friend with an illness or a senior who is having a difficult time making ends meet due to the cost of goods and living expenses, either way our moment-by-moment choices allow our light to shine to whatever degree we allow. The less fear and doubt we allow, the greater is our radiance. Soul knows no fear, it is impossible as fear is a part of the human experience.
I live in a small neighborhood where over the years we have formed a community of caring. It wasn’t by holding meetings and making decisions, it was a natural evolution over months and years as people opened their hearts and their Soul Lights became more like the radiance of the city lights I witnessed. No one really spoke about it; this was a gentle step-by-step evolution of souls awakening to the gentleness and caring of another human.
During the Covid pandemic some of the neighbors who were younger called the senior members of the community and offered to pick up groceries for them so that the seniors did not have to be exposed to Covid. During the December holidays some of the neighbors who love to bake show up at a neighbor’s home with beautiful assortments of baked goods. There is a greater sharing between fellow Beacons of Light. These are all spontaneous and deliberate acts of love. Acts of sharing how effortless it is to be in community with people who you have never met; and may not have anything in common, yet we all share the same experience called life. No one asks what religion you are, whether you are a republican or democrat or if you are gay or straight. What is important is the we are all having a human experience in a dissolving world of fear, harm, and those who want power over their fellow humans.
Recently two of the community members are coming together and inviting the other community households to create a community garden. While this is a community of townhomes and no real yard space, we have come to a solution for planters and pots. None of us are true gardeners we understand that each one has their own wisdom, their own knowing and that when put together we can create something beautiful for all to benefit. Some will know how to grow tomatoes, others zucchini or strawberries, others know nothing of growing vegetables but are willing to learn. Still others because of age or disabilities have offered to pay for some of the necessary items. Together and over time we will have a garden that will feed the small community of neighbors.
What is so amazing about this is to bear witness as Soul Lights begin to shine, love is opening hearts and minds and people do not have to feel alone or left out in these times of chaos and dissolving fear. The greater the Light, the smaller the fear, the more one opens their heart, the greater their love can be the decision maker. We have our Divine Right to shine our Light and our Free Will to choose our Divine Love to be our Beacon.
As always, “Your Light IS Your Journey!”
Love is in the Details
By Jane (Adceásian)
I have been considering my habits and patterns lately and I know that what is true for me as a human, is true for others as well. After all we all are a part of the Great Oneness of Life.
Consider for a moment your habits and patterns. As you give thought you may notice that you have been doing the same habit for a while. As you reflect on this you notice that it is time for a change, it is time to do something different. Your feelings, your emotions, are gently speaking to you, you know that what you have been doing no longer works. It no longer feels like the right choice. These feelings may be with you for a while, perhaps a week, a month, or for me, sometimes even years! I have noticed that humans do not like change!
These feelings that you embody begin in your heart, because that is where love first begins for each of us. The feelings of love are where our first step in change takes place. I know that for me, [this one] can reside in my heart for some time before I choose the next step. The feelings of a need to change do not go away and this brings us to our next step in the process of making a change.
Once we hold the feelings, the love for a need to do something different, the next step is to think about the possibilities. What change might look like, what it may feel like if we make a new choice; for many of us we can hear change before any steps are taken. This again may take days, weeks, even years for some before a new choice is made. Once the two come together and are aligned within the body, the next step is to act.
I have noticed that for me, when I make the choice to do something different there can be a feeling of excitement (Joy.) Sometimes I think it might be fear, but fear is simply a human reaction. When the choice comes from Love and Soul Wisdom the feelings are always feelings of Love and Joy. Soul knows no such state as fear, it simply does not exist; it is impossible. For me, there can be a feeling of “rightness” or something similar.
The final step in the process of making a change is of course to act. Everything that has taken place in this process of change begins with a state of Love. It is also true that every step is created from the details; the layers, the levels of choice, the nuances are all pieces of the Divine Love, the Divine Wisdom (Compassion) and the Divine Joy which each of us is created.
For any action to take place, we first must feel the love, then engage our compassion, and finally our joy is our commitment to our choice. The result of each of our choices is our effect. Everything that I do, that you do, is a combination of the above and all is gifted to us because we each have Free Will and Choice. So, my friends, if you do not like what you are doing, connect to your heart, your Love and together with your Compassion (Wisdom) you have the free will to make a different choice and experience your Joy.
Remember Love is in the details and you, along with the Divine are the Co-Creator of your choices.
Please feel welcome to contact me via email so that together we can help you remember who you are and to come home to yourself as Soul. Please email me at yourcoachingdoctor@gmail.com.
Your introductory session is free. Together we can decide if this is the right choice for you.
You are a Powerful Co-creator Being with the Divine
By Jane (Adceásian)
I remember choosing to incarnate at this time in my Soul's evolution so that I could share in the creation of the New World. The Plan: The Plan of the Godhead (God), Godhead Master’s who are in charge of this universe, and Advanced Master Souls.
The Plan is for souls to build a new world of Love, (Compassion) Wisdom and Joy. This world is known by me and others Master Souls as the 5th Domain. This world is being created by each soul's choice moment by moment. As you choose ways of caring, kindness and sharing with one another, the old ways of harm, fear and more are dissolving.
You can watch this take place and you can bear witness to the dissolution every day via the local, national, and global news on your TV. We all share in the hurt and another’s pain daily as more mass shootings and people’s fears run rampant.
In today's world it is important to share your kindness and love of your fellow humans. These are your moment-by-moment choices. Your choices become the building blocks for the new world of Love, Compassion and Joy that we are now building.
One way in which I can share how my love and joy benefits others is through one-on-one Spiritual Coaching.
Assisting my fellow beings to uncover their fears, understand their human beliefs that hold them back and offer tools to assist them in their journey Home to Self is my Joy.
E-mail me today for your free introductory session and together we can decide if this is a right fit for you.
Email: YourCoachingDr@gmail.com
Dissolving What No Longer Works
By Jane (Adceásian)
I spent a great deal of my life believing that I was not worthy of the good things in life: an education, a rewarding career, or a family that I loved and that loved me in return.
My mother taught me from little on that I was worthless, that I was not smart, and that I would never amount to anything. This montage was repeated so often, that it became embedded in my psyche.
No matter what I did, where I went or who I counseled with over the years, these old and damaging beliefs and habits clung to me; it became my identity for much of my life.
The results of these damaging beliefs create the tapestry by which you live your life, and all my choices became colored by the limitations and false narratives that I chose to take on as my own.
I know of others who have succumb to the same or similar fears and habits that continue to hold them hostage with unconscious or conscious limitations and habitual actions that keep them from their true Self; the powerful co-creator beings that each of us is.
I can spend my life blaming my mother, educators and even former friends for the “damage” or I can as Soul realize that all my experiences were my choices. I came in with certain lessons and experiences that I wanted to have so that I could understand to my greatest knowing what it is like to live in a world driven by fears, harm to self and others and the societal need to have increasingly more of everything. Do you recall the expression; “the one with the most toys wins?” This is a perfect example of why so many people feel that they are not worthy.
I know that I was not alone with these destructive beliefs and habits. I also know with certainty that I was never the only one who has lived with low self-esteem. The feelings of being less than my brothers and sisters can sometimes feel universal, and this is the way those who choose to have power over another want you to feel!
Too many of us continue to keep ourselves small and feeling unimportant, it doesn’t have to remain this way. You are a powerful evolutionary soul and a co-creator with the Divine. It’s time to remember and to claim your Divine Birth Right.
I am here to tell you that those days of harm, fear and more are dissolving rapidly and each of us by our free will and choice are making a difference. We are creating the new world of Love, Compassion and Joy with each breath, each thought, and each deed. I am here to be of service, to help you align with your Self as Soul and to remember that you are a powerful Co-creator Being with the Divine. Everything that you do is your choice, just as is mine.
Please feel welcome to contact me via email so that together we can help you remember who you are and to come home to yourself as Soul.
Please email me at yourcoachingdoctor@gmail.com.
Your introductory session is free. Together we can decide if this is the right choice for you.
Dissolving What No Longer Works, continued
By Jane (Adceásian)
For the last 20,000 plus years we humans have been taught to stay small. We were taught to not make waves because we are not the powerful ones; for the most part we are unimportant to the powerful and the entitled.
Humans created caste systems to clearly distinguish the powerful, the important, and the privileged from the masses. This is how fear, power over others, and the need to acquire more was designed.
We designed it for the purpose of remembering what it is like to live in the world of separation; to magnify this, humans created kings and queens. We assigned values to different levels of authority. We learned to bow to the royalty. We idolize the celebrities because many of us tend to see in their success what we may have desired for ourselves; fame and great financial success and the need to be loved.
We placed people in power through our political systems to make choices for the majority only to discover that the choices made benefited the powerful and the wealthy with more power over the masses and greed.
For many, many years the average citizen rarely paid attention to decisions made in Congress simply because we gave away our power to those we felt knew more about what was best and we believed what they said when campaigning for that power. As humans, we ”drank the Kool-Aid.”
I’m a child of the 60’s when protests were publicized via television for the first time, the Vie Nam War was abhorred. People were beginning to wake up in larger numbers and speak truth to power. We weren’t always good at it, but it was a time of making statements publicly and remembering that were are individuals, and that each individual voice matters. It was a time of great change.
Real change came on 12/31/11. I remember playing my part in implementing a Great New Plan that had been designed by the Godhead (God) and the Council of Twelve Godhead Masters who are responsible for this universe. The old world of harm, fear and more (greed) was closed. It was no longer possible to continue with the old ways as a new world of Divine Love, Divine Wisdom (Compassion) and Divine Joy was now here. The only old ways left are in the memories of the humans who continue choosing to hold on out of fear; the fear of loss, the fear of danger, the fear of not being loved, and the list continues. As long as people hold on to the past the past will continue to haunt their actions. It is always in a moment’s choice.
What is most exciting and beautiful is to bear witness to the bounty of souls who are embracing the new world. Those who through each choice, each thought, and every action taken, remember that they are Divine Beings.
We witness this daily as people reach out to strangers, as cities and towns become homes to the disadvantaged and the most vulnerable. Those with the eyes to see and who take the time to recollect, to act, and to know that we each are co-creator beings, evolutionary souls who have come to remember our Divinity and come Home to Ourselves as Soul. It’s your time, now!
Please feel welcome to contact me via email so that together you remember more of who you are and to come home to yourself as Soul.
Email me @ yourcoachingdr@gmail.com
Your introductory session is free. Together we can decide if this is the right choice for you.
Conflict Resolutio
In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity. —Albert Einstein
Conflict Will always be a part of work, so “they” say
Conflict is a natural and normal feature of the workplace. It occurs in every organization. For any team that strives to attain its goals, conflict is inevitable. Although
differences will occur, the outcome doesn’t have to be negative.
In this class, we will practice at least 15 different scenarios on how to be more creative and develop a greater understanding and compassion for our fellow coworkers.
We will:
1. Uncover personal triggers
2. Discover how to manage workplace difficulties
3. Listen to both sides of the story
4. Honor personal beliefs and values
5. Evaluate Calmly
6. Learn how to handle workplace conflict effectively
7. Offer a neutral perspective
8. Practice positive communication
9. Apply conflict-resolution practices
10. Have fun with Conflict resolution games
Jane F. Cundy
The Business Connection
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